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May31
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In case there was any doubt, my friend Maria Palma at customersarealways has proclaimed that marketers are, in fact, liars. It may not be universally true, but there is enough evidence to make that stereotype valid.
The example Maria uses is that she received a post card from Bill about home loans. When she called and asked for Bill, as instructed, she was told that Bill was no more than a moniker – "just the generic name we use for those postcards."
I suspect this company used the name Bill to help identify which ad Maria was responding to. We used to do that, put several recruiting ads in several papers, if someone asked for Alice, we knew that person was calling from an ad in a certain newspaper. Some of us were never comfortable with the plan, especially when new recruits would arrive and expect to meet Alice. It always made us look bad, and must have hurt the trust level of our new people. As Maria points out, how could they know we would not lie to them sooner or later?
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May31
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I received a text message on Monday, Memorial Day. One reason it was a miracle is that I don’t have text messaging as part of my service package. The other reason I call it a miracle is that the message...
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Not that long ago, I railed against the fact that AARP – the old folk’s club – had me on their mailing list. I’m not old, not even 50. I mean, c’mon. So it strikes me as ironic that the...
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There are certain basic laws that govern our actions, immovable core principles that, if not allowed to rule, can only lead to chaos and certain ruin. These rules govern our homes, our offices, our movie theaters, our softball fields. One...
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It’s too easy to say – as I have – that if you’re dumb enough to tell strangers your bank account number over the phone, having your money stolen isn’t your biggest problem. But identity theft doesn’t prey only on...
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A guy I went to college with, an attorney, received an award recently, so I sent a quick e-mail with my compliments. He responded with an equally simple "remember the good ol’ days" and a question about how I was...
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May30
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Good humor is based in truth, so a joke I read has me thinking. The gist of it is that a guy buys a donkey that dies. He can’t get his money back, so he raffles off the donkey –...
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My friend Dan celebrates his 50th birthday and 30th wedding anniversary this year. His children threw a surprise party for him and their mother, and invited family and friends to party with them. About 100 people showed up for one of...
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From Mark McCormack, Never Wrestle With A Pig (I can’t quit reading this book): Vigilance means keeping your eye on the situation at all times. A lot of people don’t have the discipline to do this. They get an idea,...
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From Randy Pennington and Marc Bockmon in On My Honor, I Will: It is by positive action that we demonstrate honor, and by honor that we distinguish ourselves from those who do not uphold these high ideals. People of honor...
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I’ve had good bosses and bad. I’ve been a good boss and a bad boss. I often reflect on why I regard some employers so highly and hardly remember the others, and why some people who have worked for me...
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May29
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I played football my sophomore year. I was a 106-pound running back. The only reason I was fourth-string was because we didn’t have a fifth-string. I hustled, but I took a lot more hits than I gave. Our coach was...
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It used to be that oil companies raised their prices for holiday weekends. We would all moan and complain, curse big oil but keep driving. This of course made money for the oil companies, but it was bad PR. At...
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I don’t know many people who don’t have at least a small Internet presence. Their name or photograph shows up somewhere. You’re out there, too, probably. One way to find yourself is to visit Technorati, to see if anyone is...
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I like movies, but not enough to pay movie theater prices. I’m content to wait a few months for the film to make it to our local dollar theater, a bargain at only $2.50. If I’m still interested in a...
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I sometimes had students who claimed to be unable to understand what they were reading, history, math, science, literature. Sometimes my children say the same thing. When that happens, I turn to Flingledobe and Pribin. It’s a short story –...
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May27
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I was 10 when Busch Stadium opened in St. Louis, 1966, and many of my favorite memories over the next 20 years are from there. I went with my dad, on school trips, with friends, with my own children. I saw...
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It’s true – I do not speak much Slovak. But I want to say dobry den and dakujem, because CoreCharacter had its 4,000th visitor early yesterday morning, and the person just happened to be from the Slovak Republic. That...
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By Julie Sevrens Lyons, Knight Ridder [A] groundbreaking new study suggests that household cleaners and air fresheners — particularly those with pine, orange and lemon scents — may emit harmful levels of toxic pollutants. Exposure to some of these pollutants...
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From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Different types of berries contain varying levels of nutrients, and can therefore be more beneficial for certain types of illness. Along with their well-known usefulness in treating urinary-tract infections, cranberries also protect against cancer, stroke and...
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I grew up near Elephant Rock State Park, my favorite place in the world, which is only 13 miles away from Johnson’s Shut-Ins State Park, my second favorite place. I have so many fun memories of those two places, as...
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May26
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I mentioned that I hoped the individuals responsible for the deceptions at Fannie Mae would face criminal charges. It is, after all, an $11 billion accounting scandal. Maybe it will happen, according to the New York Times. "Paul R. Berger,...
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I’m following an online debate at FinancialPlanning.com about the ethics of spending down assets to qualify for Medicaid - an issue most of us will face, for parents or ourselves. On the one hand, you have your "spending down their...
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"The fact is," said Earl Nightingale, "there is more opportunity today than ever before - we just have to see it. A lot of people want to try new things but are too afraid of change. Remember: it is impossible...
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My daughter is a good athlete, with natural ability in all sports. With proper coaching and practice, she excels. She’s a slugger in softball. Two nights ago, she got a new bat, and was eager to try it out. After practice,...
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When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world. George Washington Carver I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. Thomas Alva Edison The significant...
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May25
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I don’t have many regrets, but I regret that I wasn’t a good Boy Scout. It took two years to reach Tenderfoot, and the only time I went camping, I spent most of the weekend stealing food and putting shaving...
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From Brian Tracy: Your attitude toward time, your "time horizon," has an enormous impact on your behavior and your choices. People who take a long view of their lives and careers always seem to make much better decisions about their...
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I’m reading blink, right, and now I notice a book called Th!nk, the inside flap of which says: "Outraged by the downward spiral of American intellect and culture, Michael R. LeGault offers the flip side of Malcolm Gladwell’s best-selling phenomenon, blink,...
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One of my younger daughters was curious about what I write about here, so I sat her down and she read four or five posts. It was difficult to tell what her reaction was, as she is pretty subdued. She...
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"Six words lie at the root of any business success: find a need and fill it," said Earl Nightingale. "The extent of success will be determined by the ability to fill a need and by the need’s importance. Anytime we...
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May24
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What do you make of a company that uses the slogan, "Our Business Is The American Dream" then consistently engages in behavior that leads to a $400 million fine? Fannie Mae, the mortgage company, was fined yesterday because the company...
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A kid walked up with a leather basketball that he had found in the gym. "I’ve asked everyone if this is theirs," he said, "and no one claims it. There’s no name on it. Can I keep it?" It was...
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I would steal lunch money from school kids, perhaps, or maybe shoplift tennis balls, but nothing bigger than that. I wouldn't be able to sleep afterward, but that's another story. Were I so inclined, I could not support myself with...
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From Mark H. McCormack in Never Wrestle With A Pig. (I’m telling you, that book just gets better and better.) There’s no perfect ratio for talking versus listening. But you can always be sure that you will never harm your...
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This is from Malcolm Gladwell in blink: Professional tennis player and coach Vic Braden video taped players to study their movements in minute detail. He learned that what players said they did and how their bodies actually moved were not...
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May23
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I’m watching The Family Man, a scene just after when Kate says to Jack that she will take the kids from schools they love and move from the only home they’ve known together just to be with him, because she...
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The first step to becoming is to will it. Mother Teresa Make your contribution where you will, but make it! Ezra Taft Benson The only goal you can't accomplish is the one that you don't go after! Vilis Ozols When...
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From Eight Simple Ways To Reduce Stress by Better Homes And Gardens Magazine. Whether you're an executive, an at-home mom, or a cardiac surgeon, giving yourself time to unwind is vital for de-stressing your life. "Taking 10 minutes for yourself...
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One of the two shopping malls in our town may be in trouble. According to the only retail tenant – that ought to be a big clue that there is trouble – the lack of foot traffic in the 275,000-square-foot...
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We had good seats that day in St. Louis, five or six rows up from the first base line at Busch Stadium. Pete Rose, playing at first, chased a foul pop up our way. I love being part of that...
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May22
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Let’s just say I’m not a member of Martha Stewart’s fan club. I’m thinking of her because of an article about how well she’s doing following her hard time. My encounter with her was years ago, when I was selling...
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When our older kids were younger kids, they watched too much television. I asked them to suggest a daily limit. My son, 10, said that nine hours a day would be about right. I laughed, until I realized that watching...
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From Eight Simple Ways To Reduce Stress from Better Homes And Gardens Magazine Drinking four or five cups of coffee every morning does more than open your eyes. The caffeine raises your blood pressure and increases secretion of adrenaline, a...
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The leader's unending responsibility must be to remove every detour, every barrier to ensure that vision is first clear, then real. Jack Welch Loyalty to leadership is the very essence of character in business. Loyalty to principle is of the...
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Business is pragmatic, not punishment. Take the time to find enjoyment wherever possible. If you're the boss, that means you need to help workers find the fun in their jobs or offer low-cost morale events to inject some fun and...
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May20
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I want to marry Meg Ryan. You’re thinking, sure, who doesn’t, other than Dennis Quaid. I mean, just look at her, but I have other reasons, too. You’re also wondering why would she want to marry me. Right? One reason...
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There’s hope yet. The kids are watching a Looney Tunes video, and laughing. I wonder about these kids sometimes. They demonstrate such strange taste – such lack of taste – in their entertainment. Most of them read, which pleases me....
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These tips are from Kate Dailey at Men’s Health: Clear Your Stuffed NoseAn easier, quicker, and cheaper way to relieve sinus pressure is by alternately thrusting your tongue against the roof of your mouth, then pressing between your eyebrows with...
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From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Berries are among the best fruits on the planet. Not only do they taste great, but they are densely packed with a variety of potent phytochemicals that can do wonders to normalize and improve health. They...
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What does that mean, "Bob’s your uncle?" I know the line from 101 Dalmatians, but I have no idea what it means, "quick as you can say Bob’s your uncle." Another cryptic phrase I have long wondered about is, "The...
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May19
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From The Power Of Positive Thinking by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale. What a book. Worry is simply an unhealthy and destructive mental habit. You were not born with the worry habit. You acquired it. And because you can change any...
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From Randy Pennington, author of Results Rule! Build a Culture that Blows the Competition Away. The best leaders, organizations, and individual contributors live by a mantra that can be described in two words - Results Rule! It is in their...
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I taught high school for a year. If I could talk to those students again, this is what I would say: One reason so many of you struggle is that so few of you are nice to each other. Too...
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Another scam is making the rounds, says Missouri Attorney General Jay Nixon in the Springfield Business Journal. His office is checking a report from a resident who "answered a ‘secret shopper’ newspaper ad" with the promise of "cash and merchandise...
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Watching TV news, there’s no question that youth have some pretty poor role models, so it’s no surprise we get stories that young people have attitudes about business and ethics that are, well, less than ideal. A story in...
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May18
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"The desire for food is limited in every man by the narrow capacity of the human stomach: but the desire for the conveniences and ornaments of building, dress, equipage, and household furniture, seem to have no limit or certain boundary."...
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By Dan Strutzel [D]iscipline is inevitable. Either we discipline ourselves to achieve our self-chosen goals and ideals, or the world will shape us toward its own - goals and ideals that may have nothing to do with our own sense...
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From Francine Knowles, Chicago Sun-Times: More than 96 percent of business owners surveyed said they believed that having others view them as a person of integrity is very important, while only 37 percent of high school students surveyed shared that...
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I’m ashamed to admit I no longer keep a journal. I got out of the habit 20 years ago and have yet to start again. It’s a tragedy, so many things lost. A journal can be key to understanding yourself,...
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From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Notify Credit BureausReport the death to all three credit-reporting agencies. Request that a deceased alert be placed on the report. "That means when a company wants to open credit in someone’s name and it...
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May17
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I’m listening to Never Wrestle With A Pig in my car, and have enjoyed it so much I got the book. The subtitle is And Ninety Other Ideas To Build Your Business And Career, and I’m finding about half of...
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"Some years back, a group of researchers studied 16,000 corporate managers. The results surprised many skeptics. They showed that the highest achievers were those who valued people as highly as they valued profits." From Revved! An INCREDIBLE Way To Rev...
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Talk about your dedicated mothers. Here’s a story about a Maine mom who was arrested for baking laxative cookies for her daughter’s teacher and sent them off to school with her and a couple of her friends. According to the...
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A writer I generally respect recently answered a question with the moderation drivel. Not to describe the phrase as a trite, hackneyed, tired and useless cliché, "moderation in all things" is too often simply wrong. Some things are unacceptable even...
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From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Death is an opportune time for criminals, who look for personal details about the deceased in obituaries and even genealogy web sites, which often contain Social Security numbers. Armed with public information, an identity...
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May16
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Here’s one of my favorite analogies, from Jim Rohn. A glass can hold only so much water, but if you pour the water into other glasses, then keep refilling your glass, then pouring it into other glasses, you can...
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From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Watch Out For Credit Card ConsThe Institute of Consumer Financial Education warns of a new credit card scam. A caller who has your card number will inform you that you are due a credit,...
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My children last night had a contest to name the most holidays and special occasions. They forgot Moron Day, celebrated recently by two Maryland teens who set a series of fires – bad – then bragged about it and posted...
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Today I will be master of my emotions. The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets…. All nature is a circle of moods and I...
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From Walter Updegrave, What I Told The Next A-Rod, in Money, April 2006: When it comes to finances, you may not think you have much in common with athletes in a sport where paychecks average $2.5 million a year....
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May15
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I just read a story from our local business journal about "the former director of [a] Boys and Girls Club" who "pleaded guilty on Friday to embezzling $443,143 from the organization during a six-year period." Which, of course, is the...
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I left a small bag of nonperishable (and nonexpired) groceries for the Stamp Out Hunger food drive put on by the National Association of Letter Carriers, then didn’t think about it all day. When I returned home, the food was...
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From Jim Rohn, one of my heroes: If you want your life to change, here's the source of it all: ideas plus inspiration. The good news is ideas are not that far away. I've got an excellent phrase for you...
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I would love to home school my children; they would not. But, I think home school is good. Henry Cate, III, sent an e-mail about how parents generally are better able to help students build sturdy character at home. He...
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I don’t know about yours, but my mailman came by the house to collect food on Saturday. The National Association of Letter Carriers collected nonperishable foods to help needy families in our area. Which is a great idea and I’m...
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May13
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There have been only two perfect mothers, Mary, the mother of Jesus - what an experience that must have been – and Barbara Billingsly. You remember her, June Cleaver, the Beaver’s mom. Two perfect mothers. I remember a joke that...
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I went to a kid’s movie, as I sometimes do, just to listen to crowds of children laugh in unison. The movie today, Hoodwinked, was hilarious, and there was plenty of raucous laughter throughout, especially at some of the slapstick...
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As we all age (I don’t think I’m the only one), exercise becomes an even more critical component of a healthy lifestyle. It’s important to find something we enjoy doing that we can stick with for the long haul. One...
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From David Zinczenko, Men’s Health: This routine is short and simple. In addition to performing this workout three times a week, train your largest muscle groups with classic moves like squats, bench presses, deadlifts and rows. And add the 12...
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I’m here with a computer, Internet, DVD player, cell phone, hot and cold running water and indoor plumbing. You gotta love technology. Here’s a look at a few of the steps it took to get us here. The original article...
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May12
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An article in Money takes a look "behind the brand" to show that many high-priced name-brand items are made with the same components as the discount versions. "Companies want you to believe there are clear differences between their product and...
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A list of my own personal bad habits would not fit in the space we have allotted here, and you wouldn’t want to waste your time reading that. Instead, we’ll print a list by James Waldroop, Ph.D. Are some of...
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"Love is a better teacher than duty." Albert Einstein "Alexander, Caesar, Charlemagne and I myself have founded empires; but upon what do these creations of our genius depend? Upon force. Jesus alone founded His empire upon love; and to this...
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By Harry Domash Blend three ingredients - a paycheck, discipline and time - and, you, too, can be a millionaire. It's not always easy, but it's simple. And you have no excuse not to do it. Here is the single...
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Billy Joel sang that he would "rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints" because "sinners are much more fun." Does it ever seem to you that the bad guys have more fun and get ahead, the ones...
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May11
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The will to win is not as important as the will to prepare to win. Bobby Knight I came across this quote from the legendary basketball coach weeks ago, and continue to be amazed at how profound it is. So...
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Minding my own business the other day, I was startled to see that the son of one of my favorite baseball players, Bobby Bonds, was just one home run away from tying Babe Ruth for career dingers. Admittedly, I don’t...
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"You never know when you are going to be noticed. That is one reason to take pride in your work, all of it. One public relations executive n Chicago said that her first task in the PR department of a...
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From Communispond Inc. in an old issue of Communications Briefing. Select the best answer. 1. Controlling nervousness is the first concern of most executives when making a presentation. What is their second biggest worry? A) holding audience attention B) making...
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Here’s why this deal sticks in my craw. I mean look at the news. There seems to be so much corruption in the investment industry that we take it for granted. We are not surprised. And these companies know this....
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May10
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I work on the fringe of the securities industry, which, as you know, does not have a stellar reputation for ethical behavior. Here is yet another case in point: The headline to a story in USA Today says, "Hartford apologizes...
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Last night, I saw Always... Patsy Cline at our local theater, a delightful two-woman production that highlighted the talent, passion and too short life of Patsy Cline. It was extremely well done, and reminded all of us what a remarkable singer...
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From The Three Pillars Of Ethical Leadership by Tom Gegax: Enlightened executives must tune out the grumbling. You are a purpose pleaser, not a people pleaser. You need to be less concerned about who is right than what is...
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So much has been written about the Beatles and their music and their lifestyles and their influence on music and culture – and their lawsuits. Apple Corps, the company they started back in what, 1968, has survived nearly 40...
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Mom knows dad spent money on the lottery, but not how much. He bought lottery tickets so he could give his six sons money. Dad was a good and hard worker for many years. In fact, he was working the...
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May 9
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Claire Thompkins makes an excellent point on the distinction between creative thinking – which is good – and wasting time – which isn’t good. To an untrained observer, it can be difficult to tell the difference. I’m reminded of a...
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Like many of you, I wonder how people who seem to have so much to lose can risk everything by being dishonest. The most recent example is Chung Mong Koo, chairman of Hyundai Motor Co., who was recently arrested and...
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From BusinessWeek: Thinking about fudging on your travel-and-entertainment expenses? Don’t. No matter how clever you think you are, it’s all been done before. Odds are that if you have an expense account, at one point or another, you have probably...
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We went to the batting cages. There was a crowd of men there, maybe four or five, with two or three women. The guys were wearing ball pants, t-shirts, and two batting gloves each. The women cheered them on as...
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Another rich and powerful leader finds himself in jail, facing charges. I always wonder how this happens, what his first step toward time in prison was, and where you and I are stepping right now. From BusinessWeek: "With its charismatic chairman, Chung Mong...
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May 8
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There are three sandwich shops within 300 yards of me, all national chains. The third opened a few months ago. As often happens, the new store is popular for lunch, so much so that one of the established stores has...
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"Shun idleness," said Voltaire, "it is a rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals." With a full-time job, two part-time jobs and a license for a third, seven active children, grandchildren, friends, hobbies, church responsibilities, aging parents,...
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Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve, he who is fixed to a star does not change his mind. Leonardo da Vinci Fear not that thy life shall come to an end, but rather that it...
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I don’t know whether these items are from actual résumés, as claimed all over the Internet, or whether someone made them up, but they serve as horrible warnings, if nothing else. "I am extremely loyal to my present firm, so...
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I dislike e-mail forwards and mass mailings, and rarely read them, deleting unread anything with FW: in the subject line. I especially dislike seeing my precious e-mail address clustered in with strangers in the To: line. I try to control...
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May 6
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From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Having concern about skin cancer is valid, as its incidence in the United States has tripled in recent years to 54,000 cases annually. This article takes the position that sunscreens don't block UVA, which makes them...
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From The Baltimore Sun: Scientists are unsure whether sunscreen prevents against melanoma, the deadliest type of skin cancer that accounts for more than 75 percent of skin cancer deaths. They suggest that sunscreen may prevent sunburn, but may fail to...
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by Dr. Rob for MSN Health & Fitness: For starters, it is important to know that a condition or stimulus brings on most asthma attacks. We call these "triggers." Examples include: allergens (mold, pollen, pet dander, dust mites), irritants (tobacco...
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One in three of us gets fewer than six hours of sleep. Two in three of us has some sleep-related problem, like insomnia, snoring or restless leg syndrome. One in three of us is so sleepy during the day that...
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My dad had a heart attack nearly 20 years ago. My older brother had two heart attacks by the time he was 40. I visited him following his bypass surgery, and it occurred to me that our lifestyles were very...
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May 5
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I sent an e-mail to nearly everyone in my address book to announce that I have yet another e-mail address, john@corecharacter.com. Not especially clever, I know, but there it is. This way, anyone who wishes to comment or ask a...
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I’m 50 pages into a good book about ordinary people who refused to be deterred from getting what they want. Each chapter includes a Personal Action Plan worksheet, so you can do it, too. From Cynthia Kesey, in Unstoppable: 45...
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From Rebecca Hagelin, author of Home Invasion: Protecting Your Family In A Culture That’s Gone Stark Raving Mad: Before we point the finger at Hollywood, the government, or the business community for what is happening to America's youth, we must...
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I was in an all-night copy place last night about 1:30, watching college students scrambling to finish projects, some of which were creative and ambitious. I had to assume, though, that the really creative and ambitious students were home in...
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Many authors advise that we understand personality types when doing business, such as SalesDogs. Some approaches are good and some, in my opinion, are bogus. In my experience selling and recruiting, I’ve discovered there are three personality types. Some people...
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May 4
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Some commercial for some cable or satellite TV company caught my attention. The man was complaining about rates being too high, and he kept saying "Nothing is worse than paying too much for television." Well, I don’t pay anything for...
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I am one of the nicest guys I know, kind, affable, sincere. But, I have many flaws, one too many, I’ve decided, so I am going to fix it. I resent the greeters at Wal-Mart. I don’t like them saying...
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Here are parts 13 and 15 of Napoleon Hill’s 17 Principles Of Personal Achievement. Positive Mental Attitude - To govern your life, you must be able to govern your mind, and that is the starting point of all riches. I...
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From Brian Tracy: Starting first thing in the morning with your biggest and most important task is the opposite of what most people do. This discipline breaks you of the habit of procrastination and puts your future squarely in your...
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From Douglas Rushkoff, Get Back In The Box: The language and logic of business are organized around the survival instinct, even when survival is not in question. This is inefficient, unprofitable, and perhaps worst of all, depressing. Instead of...
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May 3
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I play tennis, not too well due to a 26-year gap of not playing, but well enough to enjoy myself and win a game or two. I have decent strokes but rely more on finesse and placement to win...
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From Denis Waitley: It may motivate you more toward your own goals to know that some of the most famous and well-known people in modern times had to overcome obstacles as difficult as anyone’s before they finally reached the...
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A basic principle of selling is that if you listen long enough, the customer will tell you what he or she needs you to know, and you can help them make the buying decision. Jack Keeter, president of Pacific Sales...
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Two more reasons to read and reread Napoleon Hill’s classic, from Jim Rohrbach: Definiteness of purpose – Early on, Hill asks you to write a "statement of your major purpose, or definite chief aim," talking about crafting what we would...
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I notice that the past ten posts here have had photos of Frasier Crane, Lou Gerhig, Groucho Marx, Leonardo da Vinci, Harry Nilsson, Brian Tracy, Earl Nightingale, Sir Matthew Hale, Liz Ryan and a red guitar. So half of them...
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May 2
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More from Sarah Henry at MSN Lifestyle. What she says about how we treat children applies to where we work as well as our homes: Resist comparisons. Comments such as "Why can't you be more like your sister?" or "Why...
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Like you, I like the excellent thoughts of others. Some things are so well-said they can’t be improved, and ought to be remembered and applied in some way to what we do. If you consider yourself to be an expert...
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I may well be failing as a father. My older children were well-rounded as youngsters, having been exposed to the finer things of life: the Monkees, the St. Louis Cardinals and Silver Dollar City. But the younger ones, well, I’m...
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From the writings of Leonardo Da Vinci: O thou that sleepest, what is sleep? Sleep is an image of death. Oh why not let your work be such that after death you become an image of immortality? We know well...
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I love my desk. Laugh, but I’m not alone in this. Harry Nilsson, for one, loved his desk and wrote a song about it. My desk is wooden, real, and heavy. It is solid and stained like red maple syrup....
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May 1
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From Brian Tracy: Control your thoughts. Remember, you become what you think about most of the time. Be sure that you are thinking and talking about the things you want rather than the things you don’t want. In addition, people...
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Earl Nightingale told a story about two brothers, sons of an alcoholic father, who choose different paths for their lives, one “a clean-living teetotaler,” the other “a hopeless drunk like his father.” When asked why they each acted like they...
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The real source of almost all our crimes, if the trouble is taken to trace them to a common origin, will be found to be in idleness. Walter Gaston Shotwell To be idle and to be poor have always been reproaches,...
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Liz Ryan gets it right, again. From Taking A Stand On Ethics, BusinessWeekOnline: [O]ne day you may be hit in the gut with the idea that you're a very small piece in someone else's chess game, and that the price...
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I haven’t mentioned how my new hobby - bass guitar – is progressing, because I stink. I am truly awful. At least I was until last Thursday. I like playing, and I look good holding the bass, but my fingers...
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