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May31
Ask For Alice And Other Marketing Lies

In case there was any doubt, my friend Maria Palma at customersarealways has proclaimed that marketers are, in fact, liars. It may not be universally true, but there is enough Never mind Waldo - I want to know where's Bill.evidence to make that stereotype valid.

The example Maria uses is that she received a post card from Bill about home loans. When she called and asked for Bill, as instructed, she was told that Bill was no more than a moniker – "just the generic name we use for those postcards."

I suspect this company used the name Bill to help identify which ad Maria was responding to. We used to do that, put several recruiting ads in several papers, if someone asked for Alice, we knew that person was calling from an ad in a certain newspaper. Some of us were never comfortable with the plan, especially when new recruits would arrive and expect to meet Alice. It always made us look bad, and must have hurt the trust level of our new people. As Maria points out, how could they know we would not lie to them sooner or later?

May31
The Memorial Day Miracles
I received a text message on Monday, Memorial Day. One reason it was a miracle is that I don’t have text messaging as part of my service package. The other reason I call it a miracle is that the message... Continue Reading
Part Of Aging: Learning To Embrace What Was Once Despised
Not that long ago, I railed against the fact that AARP – the old folk’s club – had me on their mailing list. I’m not old, not even 50. I mean, c’mon. So it strikes me as ironic that the... Continue Reading
If Society Is To Survive, If Life Is To Last, Some Rules Simply Cannot Be Refused
There are certain basic laws that govern our actions, immovable core principles that, if not allowed to rule, can only lead to chaos and certain ruin. These rules govern our homes, our offices, our movie theaters, our softball fields. One... Continue Reading
Identity Theft Protection Starts Today At My House
It’s too easy to say – as I have – that if you’re dumb enough to tell strangers your bank account number over the phone, having your money stolen isn’t your biggest problem. But identity theft doesn’t prey only on... Continue Reading
Legal Disclaimers Are Getting Longer Than The Documents They Protect
A guy I went to college with, an attorney, received an award recently, so I sent a quick e-mail with my compliments. He responded with an equally simple "remember the good ol’ days" and a question about how I was... Continue Reading
May30
Who Says You Can’t Raffle Off A Dead Donkey?
Good humor is based in truth, so a joke I read has me thinking. The gist of it is that a guy buys a donkey that dies. He can’t get his money back, so he raffles off the donkey –... Continue Reading
Children Don’t Owe Their Parents Squat
My friend Dan celebrates his 50th birthday and 30th wedding anniversary this year. His children threw a surprise party for him and their mother, and invited family and friends to party with them. About 100 people showed up for one of... Continue Reading
Vigilance And Patience And Courage Are Needed
From Mark McCormack, Never Wrestle With A Pig (I can’t quit reading this book): Vigilance means keeping your eye on the situation at all times. A lot of people don’t have the discipline to do this. They get an idea,... Continue Reading
A Person Of Integrity
From Randy Pennington and Marc Bockmon in On My Honor, I Will: It is by positive action that we demonstrate honor, and by honor that we distinguish ourselves from those who do not uphold these high ideals. People of honor... Continue Reading
The Bosses Attitude Is Everything
I’ve had good bosses and bad. I’ve been a good boss and a bad boss. I often reflect on why I regard some employers so highly and hardly remember the others, and why some people who have worked for me... Continue Reading
May29
Just How Long Can One Small Compliment Last?
I played football my sophomore year. I was a 106-pound running back. The only reason I was fourth-string was because we didn’t have a fifth-string. I hustled, but I took a lot more hits than I gave. Our coach was... Continue Reading
God Bless The Oil Companies
It used to be that oil companies raised their prices for holiday weekends. We would all moan and complain, curse big oil but keep driving. This of course made money for the oil companies, but it was bad PR. At... Continue Reading
Finding Yourself Is Easier Than Ever These Days
I don’t know many people who don’t have at least a small Internet presence. Their name or photograph shows up somewhere. You’re out there, too, probably. One way to find yourself is to visit Technorati, to see if anyone is... Continue Reading
I Can’t Bring Myself To See The Da Vinci Code
I like movies, but not enough to pay movie theater prices. I’m content to wait a few months for the film to make it to our local dollar theater, a bargain at only $2.50. If I’m still interested in a... Continue Reading
Flingledobe And Pribin To The Rescue
I sometimes had students who claimed to be unable to understand what they were reading, history, math, science, literature. Sometimes my children say the same thing. When that happens, I turn to Flingledobe and Pribin. It’s a short story –... Continue Reading
May27
Another Pilgrimage To The Downtown Capitol Of Cardinal Nation
I was 10 when Busch Stadium opened in St. Louis, 1966, and many of my favorite memories over the next 20 years are from there. I went with my dad, on school trips, with friends, with my own children. I saw... Continue Reading
Nehovorím (Velmi Dobre) Po Slovensky
It’s true – I do not speak much Slovak. But I want to say dobry den and dakujem, because CoreCharacter had its 4,000th visitor early yesterday morning, and the person just happened to be from the Slovak Republic. That... Continue Reading
Household Cleaners: What You Don't Know Can Hurt You
By Julie Sevrens Lyons, Knight Ridder [A] groundbreaking new study suggests that household cleaners and air fresheners — particularly those with pine, orange and lemon scents — may emit harmful levels of toxic pollutants. Exposure to some of these pollutants... Continue Reading
Cranberries (Not The Irish Rock Band)
From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Different types of berries contain varying levels of nutrients, and can therefore be more beneficial for certain types of illness. Along with their well-known usefulness in treating urinary-tract infections, cranberries also protect against cancer, stroke and... Continue Reading
Johnson’s Shut-Ins – My Second Favorite Place – Reopens This Weekend
I grew up near Elephant Rock State Park, my favorite place in the world, which is only 13 miles away from Johnson’s Shut-Ins State Park, my second favorite place. I have so many fun memories of those two places, as... Continue Reading
May26
Fannie Mae Accounting Practices Called Deliberate And Systematic Illusions
I mentioned that I hoped the individuals responsible for the deceptions at Fannie Mae would face criminal charges. It is, after all, an $11 billion accounting scandal. Maybe it will happen, according to the New York Times. "Paul R. Berger,... Continue Reading
Is It Cheating To Give Away Assets To Qualify For Medicaid’s Long-Term Care?
I’m following an online debate at FinancialPlanning.com about the ethics of spending down assets to qualify for Medicaid - an issue most of us will face, for parents or ourselves. On the one hand, you have your "spending down their... Continue Reading
Get Past First Base
"The fact is," said Earl Nightingale, "there is more opportunity today than ever before - we just have to see it. A lot of people want to try new things but are too afraid of change. Remember: it is impossible... Continue Reading
Fifteen Things To Think About That Your Dad Told You To Remember About Hitting While The Ball Is On Its Way To The Plate And He Is Standing There Watching To See What You’re Doing Wrong Rather Than What You’re Doing Well
My daughter is a good athlete, with natural ability in all sports. With proper coaching and practice, she excels. She’s a slugger in softball. Two nights ago, she got a new bat, and was eager to try it out. After practice,... Continue Reading
Opportunities Multiply As They Are Seized
When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world. George Washington Carver I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. Thomas Alva Edison The significant... Continue Reading
May25
On My Honor, I Will…
I don’t have many regrets, but I regret that I wasn’t a good Boy Scout. It took two years to reach Tenderfoot, and the only time I went camping, I spent most of the weekend stealing food and putting shaving... Continue Reading
Man, I'm Not Even Sure What I’m Doing Friday Night
From Brian Tracy: Your attitude toward time, your "time horizon," has an enormous impact on your behavior and your choices. People who take a long view of their lives and careers always seem to make much better decisions about their... Continue Reading
To Blink Or To Think?
I’m reading blink, right, and now I notice a book called Th!nk, the inside flap of which says: "Outraged by the downward spiral of American intellect and culture, Michael R. LeGault offers the flip side of Malcolm Gladwell’s best-selling phenomenon, blink,... Continue Reading
Are You Bored?
One of my younger daughters was curious about what I write about here, so I sat her down and she read four or five posts. It was difficult to tell what her reaction was, as she is pretty subdued. She... Continue Reading
Find A Hole And Fill It In
"Six words lie at the root of any business success: find a need and fill it," said Earl Nightingale. "The extent of success will be determined by the ability to fill a need and by the need’s importance. Anytime we... Continue Reading
May24
Stealing The American Dream
What do you make of a company that uses the slogan, "Our Business Is The American Dream" then consistently engages in behavior that leads to a $400 million fine? Fannie Mae, the mortgage company, was fined yesterday because the company... Continue Reading
Honest Is As Simple As That
A kid walked up with a leather basketball that he had found in the gym. "I’ve asked everyone if this is theirs," he said, "and no one claims it. There’s no name on it. Can I keep it?" It was... Continue Reading
My Problem Is That I Would Think Too Small As A Thief
I would steal lunch money from school kids, perhaps, or maybe shoplift tennis balls, but nothing bigger than that. I wouldn't be able to sleep afterward, but that's another story. Were I so inclined, I could not support myself with... Continue Reading
You Will Never Harm Your Cause By Talking Less
From Mark H. McCormack in Never Wrestle With A Pig. (I’m telling you, that book just gets better and better.) There’s no perfect ratio for talking versus listening. But you can always be sure that you will never harm your... Continue Reading
What You Think And What You Do Don’t Always Jive
This is from Malcolm Gladwell in blink: Professional tennis player and coach Vic Braden video taped players to study their movements in minute detail. He learned that what players said they did and how their bodies actually moved were not... Continue Reading
May23
A Nine-Dollar Sell-Out
I’m watching The Family Man, a scene just after when Kate says to Jack that she will take the kids from schools they love and move from the only home they’ve known together just to be with him, because she... Continue Reading
Go As Far As You Can See
The first step to becoming is to will it. Mother Teresa Make your contribution where you will, but make it! Ezra Taft Benson The only goal you can't accomplish is the one that you don't go after! Vilis Ozols When... Continue Reading
Ten Minutes To Clarity
From Eight Simple Ways To Reduce Stress by Better Homes And Gardens Magazine. Whether you're an executive, an at-home mom, or a cardiac surgeon, giving yourself time to unwind is vital for de-stressing your life. "Taking 10 minutes for yourself... Continue Reading
Comic Situation For Comic Book Seller
One of the two shopping malls in our town may be in trouble. According to the only retail tenant – that ought to be a big clue that there is trouble – the lack of foot traffic in the 275,000-square-foot... Continue Reading
One Hit Too Many For Rose
We had good seats that day in St. Louis, five or six rows up from the first base line at Busch Stadium. Pete Rose, playing at first, chased a foul pop up our way. I love being part of that... Continue Reading
May22
I’m Not Actually Pleased That Martha Stewart Did Jail Time, But…
Let’s just say I’m not a member of Martha Stewart’s fan club. I’m thinking of her because of an article about how well she’s doing following her hard time. My encounter with her was years ago, when I was selling... Continue Reading
The Power Off Button On Your Television Can Add Nine Weeks To Your Year
When our older kids were younger kids, they watched too much television. I asked them to suggest a daily limit. My son, 10, said that nine hours a day would be about right. I laughed, until I realized that watching... Continue Reading
Caffeine In Your Coffee Cup Imitates And Even Exaggerates The Body's Response To Stress
From Eight Simple Ways To Reduce Stress from Better Homes And Gardens Magazine Drinking four or five cups of coffee every morning does more than open your eyes. The caffeine raises your blood pressure and increases secretion of adrenaline, a... Continue Reading
Leaders On Leadership
The leader's unending responsibility must be to remove every detour, every barrier to ensure that vision is first clear, then real. Jack Welch Loyalty to leadership is the very essence of character in business. Loyalty to principle is of the... Continue Reading
When Was The Last Time You Had "Fake Mustache Day" At Work?
Business is pragmatic, not punishment. Take the time to find enjoyment wherever possible. If you're the boss, that means you need to help workers find the fun in their jobs or offer low-cost morale events to inject some fun and... Continue Reading
May20
Yes, I Want To Marry Meg Ryan
I want to marry Meg Ryan. You’re thinking, sure, who doesn’t, other than Dennis Quaid. I mean, just look at her, but I have other reasons, too. You’re also wondering why would she want to marry me. Right? One reason... Continue Reading
If It’s Not In Color, It Can’t Be Good
There’s hope yet. The kids are watching a Looney Tunes video, and laughing. I wonder about these kids sometimes. They demonstrate such strange taste – such lack of taste – in their entertainment. Most of them read, which pleases me.... Continue Reading
Two More Healthy Tricks For The Ol’ Body
These tips are from Kate Dailey at Men’s Health: Clear Your Stuffed NoseAn easier, quicker, and cheaper way to relieve sinus pressure is by alternately thrusting your tongue against the roof of your mouth, then pressing between your eyebrows with... Continue Reading
Eat Plenty Of Berries, But Don’t Go Hog Wild
From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Berries are among the best fruits on the planet. Not only do they taste great, but they are densely packed with a variety of potent phytochemicals that can do wonders to normalize and improve health. They... Continue Reading
Bob’s Your Uncle (Unless Your Elves Are Missing)
What does that mean, "Bob’s your uncle?" I know the line from 101 Dalmatians, but I have no idea what it means, "quick as you can say Bob’s your uncle." Another cryptic phrase I have long wondered about is, "The... Continue Reading
May19
You Do Not Need To Be A Victim Of Worry
From The Power Of Positive Thinking by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale. What a book. Worry is simply an unhealthy and destructive mental habit. You were not born with the worry habit. You acquired it. And because you can change any... Continue Reading
Results Rule!
From Randy Pennington, author of Results Rule! Build a Culture that Blows the Competition Away. The best leaders, organizations, and individual contributors live by a mantra that can be described in two words - Results Rule! It is in their... Continue Reading
One Thing I Noticed While Teaching High School: Kids Can Be Cruel
I taught high school for a year. If I could talk to those students again, this is what I would say: One reason so many of you struggle is that so few of you are nice to each other. Too... Continue Reading
There Is A Reason These “Secret Shopper” Opportunities Sound Too Good To Be True
Another scam is making the rounds, says Missouri Attorney General Jay Nixon in the Springfield Business Journal. His office is checking a report from a resident who "answered a ‘secret shopper’ newspaper ad" with the promise of "cash and merchandise... Continue Reading
A Second Look Becomes A Double Take
Watching TV news, there’s no question that youth have some pretty poor role models, so it’s no surprise we get stories that young people have attitudes about business and ethics that are, well, less than ideal. A story in... Continue Reading
May18
Adam Smith Was Behind Me At Wal-Mart Last Night, Stocking Up On Equipage
"The desire for food is limited in every man by the narrow capacity of the human stomach: but the desire for the conveniences and ornaments of building, dress, equipage, and household furniture, seem to have no limit or certain boundary."... Continue Reading
Discipline Or Disorder, You Decide
By Dan Strutzel [D]iscipline is inevitable. Either we discipline ourselves to achieve our self-chosen goals and ideals, or the world will shape us toward its own - goals and ideals that may have nothing to do with our own sense... Continue Reading
Kids Learning It Is Okay To Bend The Rules
From Francine Knowles, Chicago Sun-Times: More than 96 percent of business owners surveyed said they believed that having others view them as a person of integrity is very important, while only 37 percent of high school students surveyed shared that... Continue Reading
Journals: Another Of My Many Failures
I’m ashamed to admit I no longer keep a journal. I got out of the habit 20 years ago and have yet to start again. It’s a tragedy, so many things lost. A journal can be key to understanding yourself,... Continue Reading
Don’t Let Thieves Steal The Identities Of Your Loved Ones, Part Two
From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Notify Credit BureausReport the death to all three credit-reporting agencies. Request that a deceased alert be placed on the report. "That means when a company wants to open credit in someone’s name and it... Continue Reading
May17
Don’t Grapple With Barnyard Animals When You Can Just As Easily Send An E-Mail
I’m listening to Never Wrestle With A Pig in my car, and have enjoyed it so much I got the book. The subtitle is And Ninety Other Ideas To Build Your Business And Career, and I’m finding about half of... Continue Reading
Nice Managers Get Results (I Believe That)
"Some years back, a group of researchers studied 16,000 corporate managers. The results surprised many skeptics. They showed that the highest achievers were those who valued people as highly as they valued profits." From Revved! An INCREDIBLE Way To Rev... Continue Reading
If You Assist Children With Perpetrating These Kinds Of Crimes, You Will Be Charged
Talk about your dedicated mothers. Here’s a story about a Maine mom who was arrested for baking laxative cookies for her daughter’s teacher and sent them off to school with her and a couple of her friends. According to the... Continue Reading
In All Areas Of Life, The Key Is Moderation – Says Who?
A writer I generally respect recently answered a question with the moderation drivel. Not to describe the phrase as a trite, hackneyed, tired and useless cliché, "moderation in all things" is too often simply wrong. Some things are unacceptable even... Continue Reading
Don’t Let Thieves Steal The Identities Of Your Loved Ones, Part One
From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Death is an opportune time for criminals, who look for personal details about the deceased in obituaries and even genealogy web sites, which often contain Social Security numbers. Armed with public information, an identity... Continue Reading
May16
400 (Which Means I’m More Than Halfway To Hank Aaron)
Here’s one of my favorite analogies, from Jim Rohn. A glass can hold only so much water, but if you pour the water into other glasses, then keep refilling your glass, then pouring it into other glasses, you can... Continue Reading
Two Tips, One On Protecting Your Credit Cards And One On Tracking Your IRS Refund
From Kiplinger’s Retirement Report, May 2006: Watch Out For Credit Card ConsThe Institute of Consumer Financial Education warns of a new credit card scam. A caller who has your card number will inform you that you are due a credit,... Continue Reading
Is It Moron Day Again Already?
My children last night had a contest to name the most holidays and special occasions. They forgot Moron Day, celebrated recently by two Maryland teens who set a series of fires – bad – then bragged about it and posted... Continue Reading
Today I Will Be Master Of My Emotions, By Og Mandino
Today I will be master of my emotions. The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets…. All nature is a circle of moods and I... Continue Reading
The Same Financial Advice Pro Baseball Players Get
From Walter Updegrave, What I Told The Next A-Rod, in Money, April 2006: When it comes to finances, you may not think you have much in common with athletes in a sport where paychecks average $2.5 million a year.... Continue Reading
May15
News Of Embezzlement Charges Comes In Time To Really Make Mom’s Day
I just read a story from our local business journal about "the former director of [a] Boys and Girls Club" who "pleaded guilty on Friday to embezzling $443,143 from the organization during a six-year period." Which, of course, is the... Continue Reading
Thank You Is So Easy (And Soooo Good)
I left a small bag of nonperishable (and nonexpired) groceries for the Stamp Out Hunger food drive put on by the National Association of Letter Carriers, then didn’t think about it all day. When I returned home, the food was... Continue Reading
Now Here’s An Inspirational Idea
From Jim Rohn, one of my heroes: If you want your life to change, here's the source of it all: ideas plus inspiration. The good news is ideas are not that far away. I've got an excellent phrase for you... Continue Reading
Home School Can Work, But Parents Must Teach Kids To Be Moral, Disciplined, Ethical Scholars, Whether They Home School Or Not
I would love to home school my children; they would not. But, I think home school is good. Henry Cate, III, sent an e-mail about how parents generally are better able to help students build sturdy character at home. He... Continue Reading
Donating Expired Food Is A Pretty Crumby Thing To Do
I don’t know about yours, but my mailman came by the house to collect food on Saturday. The National Association of Letter Carriers collected nonperishable foods to help needy families in our area. Which is a great idea and I’m... Continue Reading
May13
She Doesn’t Have Internet Access And Likely Will Never See This, But Happy Mother’s Day Anyway, Mom, I Love You
There have been only two perfect mothers, Mary, the mother of Jesus - what an experience that must have been – and Barbara Billingsly. You remember her, June Cleaver, the Beaver’s mom. Two perfect mothers. I remember a joke that... Continue Reading
Laughter Is Inner Jogging*
I went to a kid’s movie, as I sometimes do, just to listen to crowds of children laugh in unison. The movie today, Hoodwinked, was hilarious, and there was plenty of raucous laughter throughout, especially at some of the slapstick... Continue Reading
Race Walk Your Way To Better Health
As we all age (I don’t think I’m the only one), exercise becomes an even more critical component of a healthy lifestyle. It’s important to find something we enjoy doing that we can stick with for the long haul. One... Continue Reading
Ab-Building Plan Promises A Six-Pack In Every Pot
From David Zinczenko, Men’s Health: This routine is short and simple. In addition to performing this workout three times a week, train your largest muscle groups with classic moves like squats, bench presses, deadlifts and rows. And add the 12... Continue Reading
You Gotta Love Technology, Just Because It's Been Around So Long
I’m here with a computer, Internet, DVD player, cell phone, hot and cold running water and indoor plumbing. You gotta love technology. Here’s a look at a few of the steps it took to get us here. The original article... Continue Reading
May12
Caveat Emptor – Now More Than Ever?
An article in Money takes a look "behind the brand" to show that many high-priced name-brand items are made with the same components as the discount versions. "Companies want you to believe there are clear differences between their product and... Continue Reading
A Dozen Bad Habits That Hold Good People Back
A list of my own personal bad habits would not fit in the space we have allotted here, and you wouldn’t want to waste your time reading that. Instead, we’ll print a list by James Waldroop, Ph.D. Are some of... Continue Reading
Love, That Four-Letter Word
"Love is a better teacher than duty." Albert Einstein "Alexander, Caesar, Charlemagne and I myself have founded empires; but upon what do these creations of our genius depend? Upon force. Jesus alone founded His empire upon love; and to this... Continue Reading
Three Simple Steps To Financial Freedom
By Harry Domash Blend three ingredients - a paycheck, discipline and time - and, you, too, can be a millionaire. It's not always easy, but it's simple. And you have no excuse not to do it. Here is the single... Continue Reading
Going To Church Can Increase Your Net Worth In Several Ways
Billy Joel sang that he would "rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints" because "sinners are much more fun." Does it ever seem to you that the bad guys have more fun and get ahead, the ones... Continue Reading
May11
Announcing The “Will To Win Is Not Enough” Contest
The will to win is not as important as the will to prepare to win. Bobby Knight I came across this quote from the legendary basketball coach weeks ago, and continue to be amazed at how profound it is. So... Continue Reading
No Joy In Mudville: Baseball Mired In Mistrust
Minding my own business the other day, I was startled to see that the son of one of my favorite baseball players, Bobby Bonds, was just one home run away from tying Babe Ruth for career dingers. Admittedly, I don’t... Continue Reading
No Task Is Too Small To Do Well
"You never know when you are going to be noticed. That is one reason to take pride in your work, all of it. One public relations executive n Chicago said that her first task in the PR department of a... Continue Reading
Quiz To Help You Give A More Successful Speech
From Communispond Inc. in an old issue of Communications Briefing. Select the best answer. 1. Controlling nervousness is the first concern of most executives when making a presentation. What is their second biggest worry? A) holding audience attention B) making... Continue Reading
Here We Go Again, Another Investment Company Caught Making So-Called “Secret Payments”
Here’s why this deal sticks in my craw. I mean look at the news. There seems to be so much corruption in the investment industry that we take it for granted. We are not surprised. And these companies know this.... Continue Reading
May10
Sorry They Got Caught, Nothing More
I work on the fringe of the securities industry, which, as you know, does not have a stellar reputation for ethical behavior. Here is yet another case in point: The headline to a story in USA Today says, "Hartford apologizes... Continue Reading
I Go Out Walking After Midnight, Out In The Moonlight, Just Like We Used To Do*
Last night, I saw Always... Patsy Cline at our local theater, a delightful two-woman production that highlighted the talent, passion and too short life of Patsy Cline. It was extremely well done, and reminded all of us what a remarkable singer... Continue Reading
A Leader’s Primary Role
From The Three Pillars Of Ethical Leadership by Tom Gegax: Enlightened executives must tune out the grumbling. You are a purpose pleaser, not a people pleaser. You need to be less concerned about who is right than what is... Continue Reading
“The Judge Does Not Agree And He Tells Them So, Oh Oh Oh” *
So much has been written about the Beatles and their music and their lifestyles and their influence on music and culture – and their lawsuits. Apple Corps, the company they started back in what, 1968, has survived nearly 40... Continue Reading
Don’t Tell Mom, But The Money Dad Wasted Playing The Lottery Would Pay Off Her House, Her Car, And All Her Bills
Mom knows dad spent money on the lottery, but not how much. He bought lottery tickets so he could give his six sons money. Dad was a good and hard worker for many years. In fact, he was working the... Continue Reading
May 9
Creativity On Demand – How Many Times Can You Milk A Cow In A Day?
Claire Thompkins makes an excellent point on the distinction between creative thinking – which is good – and wasting time – which isn’t good. To an untrained observer, it can be difficult to tell the difference. I’m reminded of a... Continue Reading
Ladies And Gentlemen, We Have Our Answer: Apparently The End Really Does Justify The Means
Like many of you, I wonder how people who seem to have so much to lose can risk everything by being dishonest. The most recent example is Chung Mong Koo, chairman of Hyundai Motor Co., who was recently arrested and... Continue Reading
Do You Know Anyone Who Cheats On T&E?
From BusinessWeek: Thinking about fudging on your travel-and-entertainment expenses? Don’t. No matter how clever you think you are, it’s all been done before. Odds are that if you have an expense account, at one point or another, you have probably... Continue Reading
Batting Cage Apparel Separates The Real Men From The Little Girls Wearing Gymnastics Outfits And Plastic Flip Flops
We went to the batting cages. There was a crowd of men there, maybe four or five, with two or three women. The guys were wearing ball pants, t-shirts, and two batting gloves each. The women cheered them on as... Continue Reading
Is It The Inevitable Result Of “Just This Once” Or Is It Something Else That Puts Successful People In Prison?
Another rich and powerful leader finds himself in jail, facing charges. I always wonder how this happens, what his first step toward time in prison was, and where you and I are stepping right now. From BusinessWeek: "With its charismatic chairman, Chung Mong... Continue Reading
May 8
Are You Looking For Trouble? You May Be Looking In All The Wrong Places
There are three sandwich shops within 300 yards of me, all national chains. The third opened a few months ago. As often happens, the new store is popular for lunch, so much so that one of the established stores has... Continue Reading
Better To Wear Out Than To Rust Out
"Shun idleness," said Voltaire, "it is a rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals." With a full-time job, two part-time jobs and a license for a third, seven active children, grandchildren, friends, hobbies, church responsibilities, aging parents,... Continue Reading
Obstacles Cannot Crush Me
Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve, he who is fixed to a star does not change his mind. Leonardo da Vinci Fear not that thy life shall come to an end, but rather that it... Continue Reading
Responsibility Makes Me Nervous
I don’t know whether these items are from actual résumés, as claimed all over the Internet, or whether someone made them up, but they serve as horrible warnings, if nothing else. "I am extremely loyal to my present firm, so... Continue Reading
Simple E-Mail Tip Spares A Lot Of Grief (And It's The Right Thing To Do)
I dislike e-mail forwards and mass mailings, and rarely read them, deleting unread anything with FW: in the subject line. I especially dislike seeing my precious e-mail address clustered in with strangers in the To: line. I try to control... Continue Reading
May 6
Don’t Use Sunscreen
From Dr. Joseph Mercola: Having concern about skin cancer is valid, as its incidence in the United States has tripled in recent years to 54,000 cases annually. This article takes the position that sunscreens don't block UVA, which makes them... Continue Reading
Use Sunscreen
From The Baltimore Sun: Scientists are unsure whether sunscreen prevents against melanoma, the deadliest type of skin cancer that accounts for more than 75 percent of skin cancer deaths. They suggest that sunscreen may prevent sunburn, but may fail to... Continue Reading
Reducing Asthma Triggers in Your Home
by Dr. Rob for MSN Health & Fitness: For starters, it is important to know that a condition or stimulus brings on most asthma attacks. We call these "triggers." Examples include: allergens (mold, pollen, pet dander, dust mites), irritants (tobacco... Continue Reading
To Sleep, Perchance
One in three of us gets fewer than six hours of sleep. Two in three of us has some sleep-related problem, like insomnia, snoring or restless leg syndrome. One in three of us is so sleepy during the day that... Continue Reading
How Low Can You Go?
My dad had a heart attack nearly 20 years ago. My older brother had two heart attacks by the time he was 40. I visited him following his bypass surgery, and it occurred to me that our lifestyles were very... Continue Reading
May 5
A Desperate Plea For Attention, Or Another Way To Carry On This Conversation?
I sent an e-mail to nearly everyone in my address book to announce that I have yet another e-mail address, john@corecharacter.com. Not especially clever, I know, but there it is. This way, anyone who wishes to comment or ask a... Continue Reading
Unstoppable
I’m 50 pages into a good book about ordinary people who refused to be deterred from getting what they want. Each chapter includes a Personal Action Plan worksheet, so you can do it, too. From Cynthia Kesey, in Unstoppable: 45... Continue Reading
Your Kids Want Boundaries, A Foundation, And More Time With You
From Rebecca Hagelin, author of Home Invasion: Protecting Your Family In A Culture That’s Gone Stark Raving Mad: Before we point the finger at Hollywood, the government, or the business community for what is happening to America's youth, we must... Continue Reading
The Procrastinators Come Out At Night
I was in an all-night copy place last night about 1:30, watching college students scrambling to finish projects, some of which were creative and ambitious. I had to assume, though, that the really creative and ambitious students were home in... Continue Reading
Some People
Many authors advise that we understand personality types when doing business, such as SalesDogs. Some approaches are good and some, in my opinion, are bogus. In my experience selling and recruiting, I’ve discovered there are three personality types. Some people... Continue Reading
May 4
Nothing Is Worse Than Paying Too Much For Television
Some commercial for some cable or satellite TV company caught my attention. The man was complaining about rates being too high, and he kept saying "Nothing is worse than paying too much for television." Well, I don’t pay anything for... Continue Reading
One Down, 510 To Go - Another Character Flaw Bites The Dust
I am one of the nicest guys I know, kind, affable, sincere. But, I have many flaws, one too many, I’ve decided, so I am going to fix it. I resent the greeters at Wal-Mart. I don’t like them saying... Continue Reading
Good Attitudes And Good Health Provide Life’s Riches
Here are parts 13 and 15 of Napoleon Hill’s 17 Principles Of Personal Achievement. Positive Mental Attitude - To govern your life, you must be able to govern your mind, and that is the starting point of all riches. I... Continue Reading
Beat Procrastination: Start The Day With Your Toughest Task, And “Become One Of The Most Productive People Of Your Generation”
From Brian Tracy: Starting first thing in the morning with your biggest and most important task is the opposite of what most people do. This discipline breaks you of the habit of procrastination and puts your future squarely in your... Continue Reading
A Genuine Sense Of Play Ignites Our Creativity, Eases Communication, Promotes Goodwill And Engenders Loyalty, Yet We Tend To Shun It
From Douglas Rushkoff, Get Back In The Box: The language and logic of business are organized around the survival instinct, even when survival is not in question. This is inefficient, unprofitable, and perhaps worst of all, depressing. Instead of... Continue Reading
May 3
Bang Boards And Duck Soup For One
I play tennis, not too well due to a 26-year gap of not playing, but well enough to enjoy myself and win a game or two. I have decent strokes but rely more on finesse and placement to win... Continue Reading
What We Make Of Failure Makes The Difference
From Denis Waitley: It may motivate you more toward your own goals to know that some of the most famous and well-known people in modern times had to overcome obstacles as difficult as anyone’s before they finally reached the... Continue Reading
Listen Up – Good Manners And Good Business
A basic principle of selling is that if you listen long enough, the customer will tell you what he or she needs you to know, and you can help them make the buying decision. Jack Keeter, president of Pacific Sales... Continue Reading
Think And Grow Rich – Enough Action, Drama And Suspense For An Award-Winning Screenplay
Two more reasons to read and reread Napoleon Hill’s classic, from Jim Rohrbach: Definiteness of purpose – Early on, Hill asks you to write a "statement of your major purpose, or definite chief aim," talking about crafting what we would... Continue Reading
What’s On My Mind? (Half The Time, Anyway)
I notice that the past ten posts here have had photos of Frasier Crane, Lou Gerhig, Groucho Marx, Leonardo da Vinci, Harry Nilsson, Brian Tracy, Earl Nightingale, Sir Matthew Hale, Liz Ryan and a red guitar. So half of them... Continue Reading
May 2
Understanding Another's Situation: No Comparison
More from Sarah Henry at MSN Lifestyle. What she says about how we treat children applies to where we work as well as our homes: Resist comparisons. Comments such as "Why can't you be more like your sister?" or "Why... Continue Reading
Add Another Quote And Make It A Gallon*
Like you, I like the excellent thoughts of others. Some things are so well-said they can’t be improved, and ought to be remembered and applied in some way to what we do. If you consider yourself to be an expert... Continue Reading
Finding Out You Aren’t The Dad You Thought You Were
I may well be failing as a father. My older children were well-rounded as youngsters, having been exposed to the finer things of life: the Monkees, the St. Louis Cardinals and Silver Dollar City. But the younger ones, well, I’m... Continue Reading
Leonardo Da Vinci On Keeping Our Work In Perspective
From the writings of Leonardo Da Vinci: O thou that sleepest, what is sleep? Sleep is an image of death. Oh why not let your work be such that after death you become an image of immortality? We know well... Continue Reading
My Good Old Desk
I love my desk. Laugh, but I’m not alone in this. Harry Nilsson, for one, loved his desk and wrote a song about it. My desk is wooden, real, and heavy. It is solid and stained like red maple syrup.... Continue Reading
May 1
Get Started, Keep Going, Take Control, Look Forward
From Brian Tracy: Control your thoughts. Remember, you become what you think about most of the time. Be sure that you are thinking and talking about the things you want rather than the things you don’t want. In addition, people... Continue Reading
Act, Don’t React, To Stress
Earl Nightingale told a story about two brothers, sons of an alcoholic father, who choose different paths for their lives, one “a clean-living teetotaler,” the other “a hopeless drunk like his father.” When asked why they each acted like they... Continue Reading
Idleness Is The Beginning Of All Vices
The real source of almost all our crimes, if the trouble is taken to trace them to a common origin, will be found to be in idleness. Walter Gaston Shotwell To be idle and to be poor have always been reproaches,... Continue Reading
Is It Possible To Prosper In Business And Still Hang On To Your Soul?
Liz Ryan gets it right, again. From Taking A Stand On Ethics, BusinessWeekOnline: [O]ne day you may be hit in the gut with the idea that you're a very small piece in someone else's chess game, and that the price... Continue Reading
Trying Not To Make A Joke About Getting To Second Bass
I haven’t mentioned how my new hobby - bass guitar – is progressing, because I stink. I am truly awful. At least I was until last Thursday. I like playing, and I look good holding the bass, but my fingers... Continue Reading

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