Picture a pointing hand, your hand, pointing at someone else. It's so easy to blame our problems on others. We blame our friends, our parents, our teachers, our leaders, our government. We blame the guy in the car behind us, or the guy in line in front of us. We blame the neighbors, we blame the media. Sometimes we may even blame God. It seems so foolish, but we do it.
Rather than blame others, we need to accept responsibility for what we do and what we say. When we are wrong, we need to admit it and make things right.
When we are unhappy, we need to figure out why and fix it. Whether we are happy or not happy is our individual decision, no matter what others do. The finger points at you.